Sunday, May 23, 2010

Choices

As we go through life we are faced with millions of choices, some more important than others! I have the tendency to analyze everything and base my choices on what's best for everybody, specially for my family. I also don't like to be rushed,off course, so that I have enough time to analyze...
It's a vicious circle...

But, today I was faced with a choice, a very difficult choice indeed, based on my own feelings and without much time to analyze...
"No more pretending!" I was being told...
How do you end a relationship of over 35 years in less than a minute, even if that relationship is already sick?
Memories were coming back in a flash and as I was making my decision to end, we were going over the reasons why we should maintain that relationship.Those reasons weren't enough for me anymore!
So, when I heard the "No more pretending" for the second time, I realized that there was nothing else to be said except...
                         I HOPE YOU HAVE A GOOD LIFE, FATIMA!
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2 comments:

  1. SeekerMay 24, 2010 at 10:31 AM

    Sometimes we have to let it go, despite we still think we can help...

    Another brave post... not surprising to me, my brave Sis.

    Love you.

    xoxo

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  2. Cheryl CatoMay 24, 2010 at 11:28 AM

    Wow! This is a brave post. I wish I could be so brave as to voice my thoughts about splits that occur in life. I can certainly identify! Friends & spouses have had to go because "pretending" just doesn't work! Good luck & happy adventures without Fatima.

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